Posted 2013/10/30
DON'T Sucking the Chopsticks Noisily Usually, if one sucks his/her chopsticks in his/her mouth, while making noises, he/she is considered to have been raised improperly. This is similar to the belief that one should drink his/her soup quietly. DON'T Striking Plates or Cups Chinese people believe it is obscene to strike one's plates, cups or bowls with chopsticks, because, in the past, only beggars struck their bowls while begging. DON'T Searching from Plate to Plate Suppose that someone around you uses or on the table while transferring food from the serving dishes to your plate or bowl. If this happens, you should immediately apologize, as it is regarded as a serious breach of etiquette. When using chopsticks, you should be careful not to put them upside down; otherwise, others will look down upon you, as if you were a hungry beggar. DON'T Miraculous Needle Pacifying the Ocean You should never insert your chopsticks in a dish, in the shape of the "miraculous needle pacifying the ocean.?? That is considered to be an insult to other diners. DON'T Burning Incense and offering Sacrifices While serving someone a bowl of rice or noodles, you might insert a pair of chopsticks in the middle to make things convenient for the person. However, you will not be thanked for your good intentions, because such behavior is regarded as a mark of disrespect for the person. Why? Inserting the chopsticks in the middle of the rice bowl is similar to the placing of a burning stick of incense in the center of a burner while offering sacrifices to the dead. It is considered a serous breach of etiquette when one drops his/her chopstick(s) on the ground, as Chinese people believe it disturbs the ancestors, who are buried. However, this can be rectified by making crosses with the fallen chopstick(s) from east to west, and then from north to south. While picking up the chopstick(s), the person should murmur "I am a damn fool," to express his/her regret. |